I recently started to write again in my blog. The basic idea of this blog is to write what I feel (I think everyone has something to say, and we all want to be heard.. but I also want to know - if possible- what you think).

You need to see good in every wrong, and that way you may turn wrongs into goods. You also need to realize that your life is your life, and you make it yourself with thing you decide to fill it with.  What I’m trying to say is that if you make your life go around other people, when those people leave, you are left alone. And it’s your life, so it turns out to be a very terrible strategy to live by if you ask me.

What I've learn so far is that you have to make your own life, and take courage to make decisions, because that way you can make your life pretty amazing. Sure sometimes you know what you want but… can you get it? Do you have what it take to make it happen? I would have to say no. I’m sorry, I don’t mean to crush your dreams but that’s the truth. People will tell you that if you wish for something and work very hard you’ll get it. Well I say that’s not necessary true…

And no, I’m not being negative. I HATE it when people call me negative, because I’m all about the positive vibe. But the thing is that you may work very hard and if the situation is meant to be it’ll be so.  That doesn't mean sit down and wait for great things to happen, because even though they might happen so, you actually do have to make some of the work.  I mean, if you don’t make a road you’ll lead nowhere. But it’s also true that a lot and I mean a LOT of things in this life are depending on others and not only just you. That means that if other persons want to achieve something and they are working for it and you are also working for the same thing, just one might get it.

On the other hand things could be a bit more complicated, for example love.  When you talk about love, you think about to persons in love if it’s not so it won’t work. So it really doesn't matter how much you want him to like you or love you, how much you do to make him feel that way, if he doesn't want that it just won't happen. See? And that shouldn't be seen as a bad thing, not at all!

Oh! And that reminds me that saying something is stupid because he doesn't like you its pretty stupid. When you start seeing things objectively and you start to get rid of all the drama, you realize how simple life can be and how complicated you are making it.  

Why are we SO obsessed with being loved by someone? Or is it just me?

WE are good enough, we can do things alone and have FUN! It's a matter of confidence an enjoy yourself.

Perfect look to go wall climing? (with a cute guy) YOU decide, go on and let me know :)

One thing I don’t understand is why do people suffer from love? Isn’t it stupid? Why suffer? You see that all the time in movies: the guy breaks up with her and she stays home for weeks, watching TV and eating ice-cream. Ben & Jerry’s become her new and only men in life.

That’s silly, she shouldn’t be sad while he could be in some bar having fun. She should go on with her life or find someone else who makes her happy. She should embrace what she loves and enjoy every second.

No guy is worth a girl’s tears... The only one who’s worth her tears is the one who knows he could make her cry but would never ever try. One day your prince will come… He just took the wrong turn, got lost and is too stubborn to ask for directions. And if he never appears, which isn’t very likely, the world it’s not going to stop turning. And you’re life will still be on. So make good use of it, in the end all you need is you.

I don't understand why some girls get upset by thinking that they lost the guy they loved when they never actually loved him and he was never theirs. If I were in their place I would like to think that the sun keeps shining, the moon keeps rising, and that I can go on without him.

Ok, so it is kind of hard. What do you do when you finally find someone so nice, someone with whom you can get along so naturally? I once met a really sweet guy, a great friend. The only controversial part was that one of my friends liked him, or at least liked to flirt a bit with him, and that’s all right, everyone likes to flirt from time to time.

But sometimes I got the feeling that he might like her as well. But I wasn’t sure because other times I felt as if he liked me. It was just hard to tell if he liked me or liked me - liked me. That’s the problem with people who are as nice as him: they are nice to everyone and it’s hard to tell who they really like and with whom they are just being polite. I should’ve known the answer, because I consider myself a nice person too, and I haven’t got any problem with anyone so far.

Anyway, I try to be as obvious as I can, so the guy that I like realizes that I like him. But trying as hard as I can is never enough, I must be really shy or a terrible flirt. And the worst is that when I’m nice to someone everyone else starts getting the wrong idea, they believe I like them when it’s not true. And, if I really like someone, well nothing happens. Ever!

Guys.

What about them? 

I have no idea.

They are SO complicated.

One second they want to be with you, and the very next... it's over.

They are like... "Oh, let's go out!... Let's talk about it in the week"... GIRLS, if the guy says something like that... say "Sure..." and DON'T believe him. They have this stupid tendency to run. Hello, guys?  MAN UP!

DON'T take them too seriously. And DON'T say yes to any guy, I mean sure.. go out and see the world, meet guys have fun. But don't settle for LESS. EVER.

I also think, we... or at least I should  not take guys too seriously, for real. They're fun, sure... But is that enough?? I think that even though everyone says that Disney ruined our lives, because it gave us unrealistic standard about what love should be... I think it's OK to dream about a true love, not lust.

I also believe that most of... or maybe all of my "heartbreaks" (I use commas, because I don't think I've ever been heartbroken... just disappointed) are due to my silly head... the one that imagines the perfect scenario, which by the way is SO perfect, it never happens. And that's why I end up sad. 

Confused about love??? HA! me too.

How do you know if you found HIM? They say you just... feel it. Well, I made myself believe I felt IT so many times, I don't really feel anything now. Not something different at least.

Like Micheal B. says... "I guess the half's timing, and the other half's luck"

I wish you the very very very best of luck and I hope you'll find your perfect match... maybe not soon, but in time :)

Hi there :)


October 23rd
Ok... so I've been asked out by this guy I REALLY REALLY like. Like, REALLLY!!!!!!!!!!
Mhm, I'm just afraid he'll forget about me or something, because he said we'll meet next week because he has like tons of work to do! I don't like to wait, because I fill my head with all this stupid ideas, but the REAL problem is... I'm afraid he'll stand me up just like the other guy..
I'm not sure what I should do until he calls me (next week maybe.. I don't know when or if he'll call me..!)
But,  I think I should just take it a  step at a time, and enjoy the fact that the guy I like, has asked me out... Because that must mean he likes me or something.. right??

October 27th


I've seen HIM 2 times this week, I know it doesn't sound like it's a LOT, but believe me, IT IS. I haven't seen him since summer and all of the sudden I started meeting him...! Some say it's the POWER of my MIND.  An I'm not sure if I believe THAT, but it is true that I have "decided" I wanted to see him and BOOM, I saw him, and we had a little chit-chat.


What have I learnt this week? I'm not sure haha.  I just have this PEACE within me.
I saw yesterday the guy that stood me up, I even hugged him when I saw him and said hello, he was kinda confused. But I was ok with the situation, I thought I would be sooo angry when I saw him again, but NO. I just didn't care... Of course I would NEVER ever even think about going out with him ever ever again! But I wasn't mad, or upset, or sad... or anything. It felt good.


On the other hand, I don't want to loose hope in guys or love, but I'm starting to take things more calmly. It might work, plus it feels good. I finally understood that thing really DO happen when they should and because they should, so their is REALLY no use in rushing anything.


IT FEELS GOOD.


Of course, I still have that little BUG in my head saying "Go make something happen, you LIKE him! DO something", but I want HIM to be the one to do something for a change, and then again things will happen when they should. Meanwhile I'll keep myself open for what it will come :)


And I'll listen to this playlist:

If This Was A Movie Taylor Swift

You got me                       Colbie Caillat

Today Was A Fairytale       Taylor Swift

Sparks Fly                          Taylor Swift

Jump Then Fall                    Taylor Swift

Fallin' For You                  Colbie Caillat

Superstar                          Taylor Swift

One In This World            Haylie Duff

Love Story                       Taylor Swift

Your Anything                   Taylor Swift

You Belong With Me        Taylor Swift

Fearless                            Taylor Swift

What if                            Colbie Caillat

Bubbly                            Colbie Caillat

Singled Out                     A*Teens

Daydream                      Miranda Cosgrove

Half of My Heart           John Mayer

Hip To My Heart      The Band Perry

Untouchable                Taylor Swift

Things I'll Never Say    Avril Lavigne