Things I've learnt this week (YES, only this week...)

1. I have mastered the art of BEING asked out! Going out? Not so much, but hey it's got to mean something right? I mean,  many guys flirt with me... sadly some have girlfriends and I don't like that. But still, I've been asked to go out a LOT lately... But sometimes I DON'T want to go out with them, and others.. when I ACTUALLY want to go out, something happens and we just can't seem to be able to go OUT!
2. Guys lie. I don't now if it is on purpose, but they do... or they SIMPLY forget we where supposed to meet.
3. Guys LOVE smiley and flirty girls!!! Are you scared... to walk to a guy and say "HI"? You shouldn't!! They love it when you do a little chit-chat with them ;) GO FOR IT! 
4. Don't take the lead!...  I mean.. don't ask him out LET him do all the HARD work! That doesn't mean you shouldn't suggest him he should do all the work.. Because you TOTALLY should!! You know... go talk to him, touch him ;)... make him like you and WAIT. He'll ask you out :)
5. Don't loose hope, just enjoy the moment. He'll come... I don't know when but he's gotta!
6. Don't make yourself feel bad, just DON'T. Don't start daydreaming about EVERYTHING that could go wrong! Think about the good things that HAVE happened. 
7. ENJOY ENJOY ENJOY! FLIRT FLIRT FLIRT! Be bold, be you!!!* HAVE FUN.
8. Don't take guys too seriously, because if you do you might end up hurt. And it will be your fault, because you let them get to you.
9. I have punished me for sooo long because I don't have a boyfriend. I didn't let myself enjoy each time a  guy asked me out or looked at me or winked an eye. Because I thought it wasn't for real, because I HAD to  have made that up!... I didn't let myself dance to a love song, because I thought I would be disappointed. 
10. I think I'll give myself a chance to enjoy, not just flirting, but also believing that THIS guy that gives me butterflies when I'm near him, actually likes me back, and something GOOD might happen.
11. I HAVEN'T FELT BUTTERFLIES FOR SOMEONE IN A LONG TIME.
12. I am HAPPY. I am pretty, and I like myself. And I think it shows.
13. I'm going to take a chance, and I wont say and repeat what I always say.... "It's ok, if nothing happens between you two, you'll be alright. It won't kill you, it's NOT the end of the world". Well I know THAT, so I don't need to repeat that to myself, I'm just going to JUMP.
14. To do that Jump, I need confidence. So lets say, that because he was with me the whole night, he kinda likes me. So I'll think we have a shot. WHY NOT?!

Hello everyone :)

The sun is shining, and later I'll buy the dress of my dreams.

Lovely isn't it??

It's... so vintage and kinda sexy... ! LOVE IT!

I have finally discovered what I had to learn about THAT guy... it's okay to be stood up, nothing TERRIBLE happens. You'll be just fine, and now you know better. You just have to enjoy :) And say COME WHAT MAY!... Tomorrow I'm going to this party, with older guys, and cute ones too. I still don't know what I'll wear, probably skinny jeans a cute top and pumps!

I also learnt that all you need in life (when it comes to guys) is confidence... and FLIRT!... Hahaha, but I always thought that buy being flirty you had to know exactly what you were doing, you know like if you had a plan and some tactics you only had to apply them and BOOM you got results (meaning .... the GUY).

But that's not how IT works, you just have to enjoy. How? Find your style... WHICH is your style??... Maybe you are a bookworm... TALK  about books! Maybe you are a music GURU, work that...!Maybe you love to LAUGH, make THEM laugh with you while YOU enjoy that... TOUCH them, look at them in the eye, joke around them (That's my style).

And maybe the plans you have TODAY for TOMORROW won't work out, but you can still enjoy it now. Like, I'm not 100% sure I'l go to the party tomorrow, because lets face it.. you never really know. BUT I can surely enjoy thinking today what I will wear tomorrow and making the next list:

0-. The day before and before the party (meaning the morning of the party)... were very little makeup, don't do your hair but dress nicely. That way you'll look plain, and you'll sparkle in the party... Not only because, well you actually are looking a bit plain to the others, but because you think you look plain and when you get all dressed up you gain confidence, and that shows. Remember to wear something cute, because you want to look plain, not UGLY.

1-. Do eyebrows

2-. Clean pores

3-. Pedicure

4-. Manicure

5-. Shower

6-. Apply cream all over (Coconut cream... guys go GAGA for it, try this one!:http://www.pharmapacks.com/product_images/i/127/a1174040_4920__60664_zoom.jpg )

7-. Blow dry hair (So it'll be smooth and straight.. but not flat)

8-. Do make up... Ehjm.. THE SMOKEY eye.

9-. Dress.

10-. Jewelry! (Not much though.. just a little sparkle here and there)

11-. Perfume!!! (Vera Wang Princess?)

12-. Look in the mirror and say.. "OMG I'm so pretty"

13-. Ready!

All while listening to nice music... Taylor Swift, Aly Aj, The Band Perry.... 

Kisses*

Good morning people :)

Isn't life beautiful?? Yes, yes it is.

Even though yesterday 4 different persons stood me up, I learned that things always happen for the best. Sometimes things aren't what you wish they were, sometimes reality doesn't match with your expectations... But tats your fault for having expectations. Expectations ruin everything, so just ENJOY the NOW, not even the today ONLY now. 

So even though yesterday it was kinda disappointing, it turned out someone BETTER invited me somewhere next week... MAYBE... Well, hopefully it'll happen. But even if it doesn't, let me tell you that  everything happens for a reason, and that reason is ALWAYS a good one.  What I'm trying to say is be open for life, you never know what it might happen. And DON'T try to figure out what will happen. THAT NEVER WORKS.

So I WON'T spend the whole weekend thinking over NEXT weekend, I'll just enjoy the moment. Of course, it's easier said than done, hahaha... I have a way to imaginative mind, and It'll be hard not to think about what I wish will happen.  But I'll try :)

It doesn't matter what will happen, because it HASN'T happened yet. And it doesn't matter what has happened, because it's already gone, so I  think it's OK to think about the past and smile, and let go. Because the ONLY thing you TRULY have is... now.

I recommend you to watch this movie :)  I love it.

And after that, or before.. ahah it doesn't really matter listen to this guy (I don't understand a word... but WOW the feeling he gives me!)