Friday, 30 September 2011

"You don't need a man. You need a life. " True, true true! Be happy with yourself, do something for yourself! YOU YOU YOU! Once you're OK with the person you are and the life you have everything will fall into place, and yes... Prince Charming will appear, but not to make your life better.... No. Because you'll be already enjoying your life. He'll appear to be part of that life, and you of his. 
Things have a way of finding their own place... so let them find it!... Have you ever wanted something that was just not meant to be? Did it break, did it all turn out wrong??--- Yes. Don't lie, it did. Because it WASN'T meant to be. Don't force things.
Another thing, don't look for your other half... Look for a whole! Yes... why be with a half... a person that needs you, a person that is not complete???? WHY?! Oh why...? Look for a whole person, but first become a whole person yourself... only that way you'll  have a GREAT relationship.
PS: Listen to happy music, read happy thing, be happy... and you'll be surrounded by happiness, and that way you'll clear your mind and things will flow easily :)*

Thursday, 29 September 2011

Create a  mantra.... and work on it!
It works!!!!!*
I'll start one today... and I'll repeat it to myself to fall asleep.
I'll let you know when it works!
Mantra: "I 'm meeting the guy of my dreams"
Meanwhile, I'll keep having fun meeting tons of guys, just for fun... Hey, you can never have too many friends ;)

Guys.... There's so much about them. They are, oh! so different. Short, tall, blond, dark.... personally I like the manly type. Oh yes. You know, strong, hairy and gorgeous ones!  
Like I said before... guys, well I never got along with them, I guess it had something to do with the fact that i was like EXTREMELY shy. And all of the sudden 5 guys ask me out the same day! Now... how did THAT happen? I just can't help but to laugh...! Well, I must say it is no miracle, or maybe it is.. I got to admit I had  some chit-chat with Saint Anthony... And I do not doubt he has helped  me ;)
But, it's also true that ever since I started doing yoga, things have been a lot different. Everything is prettier, and  every day at least one good thing happens! Ok... I've also got to say that... maybe it has to do with myself. Yes. Maybe... back then things were also pretty, and good things happened to me everyday, but did I see them? No. No, I didn't... It's all about being open to life, for life... with life. Have no expectations and enjoy everything at it's moment. Yes, that's the difference. Being happy with yourself. 
Now... let me tell you something, back then when I felt ugly... alone... and all those kind of things, I heard people say "Be happy, and the world is better", no offense but, I didn't believe that... now I do.
It's not like saying "I want to be happy" and BOOM! You're happy... it's more like a process... and there are no steps to that process. It's like an automatic thing, you only have to want it, and be open to it. It doesn't really matter what "IT" is... it's just "it"... a thing inside us that wants something better. Be in peace with yourself, and everything will fall into place.
Stop trying to find and use a life-manual. It doesn't exist, and if you find it, it doesn't work.
Hello everyone,
This is my very first blog....ever! Yes, thank you very much. I'm really excited about it :)
What I intend to do is keep registered everything I've learned about guys, so others can learn about it too. Maybe it's a bit shallow, but it's still very interesting and... I'm a  BOY-CRAZY so I enjoy it very much :)
Although I wasn't the kind of girl who would come to a guy and drive him crazy about her,  something changed and know I am that kind of girl... sorta. Hahahaha, I really enjoy it... you know the attention, and just having fun and making new friends :)