I recently started to write again in my blog. The basic idea of this blog is to write what I feel (I think everyone has something to say, and we all want to be heard.. but I also want to know - if possible- what you think).
You need to see good in every wrong, and that way you may turn wrongs into goods. You also need to realize that your life is your life, and you make it yourself with thing you decide to fill it with. What I’m trying to say is that if you make your life go around other people, when those people leave, you are left alone. And it’s your life, so it turns out to be a very terrible strategy to live by if you ask me.
What I've learn so far is that you have to make your own life, and take courage to make decisions, because that way you can make your life pretty amazing. Sure sometimes you know what you want but… can you get it? Do you have what it take to make it happen? I would have to say no. I’m sorry, I don’t mean to crush your dreams but that’s the truth. People will tell you that if you wish for something and work very hard you’ll get it. Well I say that’s not necessary true…
And no, I’m not being negative. I HATE it when people call me negative, because I’m all about the positive vibe. But the thing is that you may work very hard and if the situation is meant to be it’ll be so. That doesn't mean sit down and wait for great things to happen, because even though they might happen so, you actually do have to make some of the work. I mean, if you don’t make a road you’ll lead nowhere. But it’s also true that a lot and I mean a LOT of things in this life are depending on others and not only just you. That means that if other persons want to achieve something and they are working for it and you are also working for the same thing, just one might get it.
On the other hand things could be a bit more complicated, for example love. When you talk about love, you think about to persons in love if it’s not so it won’t work. So it really doesn't matter how much you want him to like you or love you, how much you do to make him feel that way, if he doesn't want that it just won't happen. See? And that shouldn't be seen as a bad thing, not at all!
Oh! And that reminds me that saying something is stupid because he doesn't like you its pretty stupid. When you start seeing things objectively and you start to get rid of all the drama, you realize how simple life can be and how complicated you are making it.