Guys.

What about them? 

I have no idea.

They are SO complicated.

One second they want to be with you, and the very next... it's over.

They are like... "Oh, let's go out!... Let's talk about it in the week"... GIRLS, if the guy says something like that... say "Sure..." and DON'T believe him. They have this stupid tendency to run. Hello, guys?  MAN UP!

DON'T take them too seriously. And DON'T say yes to any guy, I mean sure.. go out and see the world, meet guys have fun. But don't settle for LESS. EVER.

I also think, we... or at least I should  not take guys too seriously, for real. They're fun, sure... But is that enough?? I think that even though everyone says that Disney ruined our lives, because it gave us unrealistic standard about what love should be... I think it's OK to dream about a true love, not lust.

I also believe that most of... or maybe all of my "heartbreaks" (I use commas, because I don't think I've ever been heartbroken... just disappointed) are due to my silly head... the one that imagines the perfect scenario, which by the way is SO perfect, it never happens. And that's why I end up sad. 

Confused about love??? HA! me too.

How do you know if you found HIM? They say you just... feel it. Well, I made myself believe I felt IT so many times, I don't really feel anything now. Not something different at least.

Like Micheal B. says... "I guess the half's timing, and the other half's luck"

I wish you the very very very best of luck and I hope you'll find your perfect match... maybe not soon, but in time :)

Things I've learnt this week (YES, only this week...)

1. I have mastered the art of BEING asked out! Going out? Not so much, but hey it's got to mean something right? I mean,  many guys flirt with me... sadly some have girlfriends and I don't like that. But still, I've been asked to go out a LOT lately... But sometimes I DON'T want to go out with them, and others.. when I ACTUALLY want to go out, something happens and we just can't seem to be able to go OUT!
2. Guys lie. I don't now if it is on purpose, but they do... or they SIMPLY forget we where supposed to meet.
3. Guys LOVE smiley and flirty girls!!! Are you scared... to walk to a guy and say "HI"? You shouldn't!! They love it when you do a little chit-chat with them ;) GO FOR IT! 
4. Don't take the lead!...  I mean.. don't ask him out LET him do all the HARD work! That doesn't mean you shouldn't suggest him he should do all the work.. Because you TOTALLY should!! You know... go talk to him, touch him ;)... make him like you and WAIT. He'll ask you out :)
5. Don't loose hope, just enjoy the moment. He'll come... I don't know when but he's gotta!
6. Don't make yourself feel bad, just DON'T. Don't start daydreaming about EVERYTHING that could go wrong! Think about the good things that HAVE happened. 
7. ENJOY ENJOY ENJOY! FLIRT FLIRT FLIRT! Be bold, be you!!!* HAVE FUN.
8. Don't take guys too seriously, because if you do you might end up hurt. And it will be your fault, because you let them get to you.
9. I have punished me for sooo long because I don't have a boyfriend. I didn't let myself enjoy each time a  guy asked me out or looked at me or winked an eye. Because I thought it wasn't for real, because I HAD to  have made that up!... I didn't let myself dance to a love song, because I thought I would be disappointed. 
10. I think I'll give myself a chance to enjoy, not just flirting, but also believing that THIS guy that gives me butterflies when I'm near him, actually likes me back, and something GOOD might happen.
11. I HAVEN'T FELT BUTTERFLIES FOR SOMEONE IN A LONG TIME.
12. I am HAPPY. I am pretty, and I like myself. And I think it shows.
13. I'm going to take a chance, and I wont say and repeat what I always say.... "It's ok, if nothing happens between you two, you'll be alright. It won't kill you, it's NOT the end of the world". Well I know THAT, so I don't need to repeat that to myself, I'm just going to JUMP.
14. To do that Jump, I need confidence. So lets say, that because he was with me the whole night, he kinda likes me. So I'll think we have a shot. WHY NOT?!

Hello everyone :)

The sun is shining, and later I'll buy the dress of my dreams.

Lovely isn't it??

It's... so vintage and kinda sexy... ! LOVE IT!

I have finally discovered what I had to learn about THAT guy... it's okay to be stood up, nothing TERRIBLE happens. You'll be just fine, and now you know better. You just have to enjoy :) And say COME WHAT MAY!... Tomorrow I'm going to this party, with older guys, and cute ones too. I still don't know what I'll wear, probably skinny jeans a cute top and pumps!

I also learnt that all you need in life (when it comes to guys) is confidence... and FLIRT!... Hahaha, but I always thought that buy being flirty you had to know exactly what you were doing, you know like if you had a plan and some tactics you only had to apply them and BOOM you got results (meaning .... the GUY).

But that's not how IT works, you just have to enjoy. How? Find your style... WHICH is your style??... Maybe you are a bookworm... TALK  about books! Maybe you are a music GURU, work that...!Maybe you love to LAUGH, make THEM laugh with you while YOU enjoy that... TOUCH them, look at them in the eye, joke around them (That's my style).

And maybe the plans you have TODAY for TOMORROW won't work out, but you can still enjoy it now. Like, I'm not 100% sure I'l go to the party tomorrow, because lets face it.. you never really know. BUT I can surely enjoy thinking today what I will wear tomorrow and making the next list:

0-. The day before and before the party (meaning the morning of the party)... were very little makeup, don't do your hair but dress nicely. That way you'll look plain, and you'll sparkle in the party... Not only because, well you actually are looking a bit plain to the others, but because you think you look plain and when you get all dressed up you gain confidence, and that shows. Remember to wear something cute, because you want to look plain, not UGLY.

1-. Do eyebrows

2-. Clean pores

3-. Pedicure

4-. Manicure

5-. Shower

6-. Apply cream all over (Coconut cream... guys go GAGA for it, try this one!:http://www.pharmapacks.com/product_images/i/127/a1174040_4920__60664_zoom.jpg )

7-. Blow dry hair (So it'll be smooth and straight.. but not flat)

8-. Do make up... Ehjm.. THE SMOKEY eye.

9-. Dress.

10-. Jewelry! (Not much though.. just a little sparkle here and there)

11-. Perfume!!! (Vera Wang Princess?)

12-. Look in the mirror and say.. "OMG I'm so pretty"

13-. Ready!

All while listening to nice music... Taylor Swift, Aly Aj, The Band Perry.... 

Kisses*

Good morning people :)

Isn't life beautiful?? Yes, yes it is.

Even though yesterday 4 different persons stood me up, I learned that things always happen for the best. Sometimes things aren't what you wish they were, sometimes reality doesn't match with your expectations... But tats your fault for having expectations. Expectations ruin everything, so just ENJOY the NOW, not even the today ONLY now. 

So even though yesterday it was kinda disappointing, it turned out someone BETTER invited me somewhere next week... MAYBE... Well, hopefully it'll happen. But even if it doesn't, let me tell you that  everything happens for a reason, and that reason is ALWAYS a good one.  What I'm trying to say is be open for life, you never know what it might happen. And DON'T try to figure out what will happen. THAT NEVER WORKS.

So I WON'T spend the whole weekend thinking over NEXT weekend, I'll just enjoy the moment. Of course, it's easier said than done, hahaha... I have a way to imaginative mind, and It'll be hard not to think about what I wish will happen.  But I'll try :)

It doesn't matter what will happen, because it HASN'T happened yet. And it doesn't matter what has happened, because it's already gone, so I  think it's OK to think about the past and smile, and let go. Because the ONLY thing you TRULY have is... now.

I recommend you to watch this movie :)  I love it.

And after that, or before.. ahah it doesn't really matter listen to this guy (I don't understand a word... but WOW the feeling he gives me!)

I'm obsessed with weddings.

Yes, I am, and I don't like it. It's not like I hate them, or that I never want to get married. It's the exact opposite actually. 

The reason? My best friend is getting married. I'm the MAID OF HONOR. Needless to say... I have no IDEA who I should bring to her wedding. Hahaha. There are many guys that have asked me out the last month. Yesterday 3 guys. Needless to say, I declined all their invitations. WHY? I don't know, I just don't get all EXCITED about going out with them. I guess I do like them, as friends but that's it. I don't feel anything for them, and I know... You DON'T  have to feel anything for them... You just NEED to get to know them, better and then perhaps...fall in love, or something?

I know them, I see them everyday in class... But, that's about it, I like them as persons, I have so much fun with them, but... I guess I'm looking for something different. (That's important you NEED to know what you want, because if you don't... then how are you going to get it? AND, probably what you want or look for in a guy... shouldn't be things like "Oh... that he likes the same things I do!", because that depends on him, he should like what he wants... I think, what you should look for in a guy are things like "Is he hard working, is he a good person,  is he reliable, do we have fun together?"... things like that )

I suggest you go out with many guys as you can! That way you'll get a good taste of what's out there, but... in the other hand.. why go out with someone you don't really want to go out with? Sure, you might fall in love... but I think you'll ONLY fall in love if you give them a chance, and you'll only give them a chance if you have a good hunch  about them ;)

Well i have a good hunch about someone, and yes... I have my insecurities... Yes, I'm SCARED it might not work.. (he HAS to call me first so we'll arrange our "date"... or something like that). But same as you... I SHOULDN'T  think about the future... or what might go wrong, or right.  The only thing to do is enjoy the RIGHT NOW. And right now I'm getting inspired to right this blog, and that's about it :)*

So just breath in... and breath out.. forget about where you might or might no go with the guy... and enjoy life as it comes, when it comes.

And don't you ever forget to love yourself, and have time for yourself and make yourself look pretty for YOU and not only for him... trust me if you start paying more attention to YOU... he'll be more attracted to you... Just don't get too caught up in yourself, that is in NO WAY attractive ;) Just like yourself, take care of yourself, make time for yourself and don't be all about him.

Anyway this is my wedding dress...

(I just need to get the groom... no biggie)

http://www.thevintageweddingdresscompany.com/collections/decades/1940s

I have the answer to your problems.
:D
MUAHAHAHA!

Ok, I'm not sure I ACTUALLY have the answer. But I can assure you, that the "answer" I will now give you, really works, at least to me, and hopefully to you too.

1) Love YOURSELF. It works for real. Is it easy? Yes. Really??? No.

Truth be told, loving yourself is a very easy thing, you should do it automatically, sadly.... for some unknown reason that isn't as easy as it sounds... You have to work to get there. What I did was YOGA. KUNDALINI YOGA, and amazingly it works... I still don't know much about it,  i just now that for some reason I'm happier, this is true!. And it's like I've opened my eyes and saw the real me and I like it, I like me :)*

I LOVE ME!!!

And the best part is... others started liking me too! I mean a LOT! Many, many persons started liking me a LOT!

I think you should try it too, because it works for me... but you don't have to. I suggest you find an activity that helps you be in peace with yourself, so you will understand yourself better and start liking and loving YOU.

Then, you'll attract.. I don't know... call it "POSITIVE ENERGY"... or whatever..and then... BOOM! Great things happen. Start feeling it.

It's true :)

Plus seeing your pictures, or looking in the mirror and saying "Wow, I'm pretty" Works too :)*

2) Enjoy love stories, movies and music... but don't let them get to you. Not much, anyway. 

If you see a cute guy in the street, or even everyday at school... and he is so hot you melt... you think you love him. But you don't. You wish you did. But you don't.  Do you even know the guy???

Hey, if he's that hot... then go out together, have fun, get to know each other and THEN, decide if you love him. But ask yourself, does he love YOU? WHAT do you LOVE about him?

Take it easy, but enjoy :D Just don't let romantic music ruin you... because music is like a mantra, and everything you constantly repeat gets in your head... and you head does the rest of the work. So just make sure you ONLY enter nice, positive thoughts in you mind (nothing you DON'T even slightly want to happen).

Note: Sometimes, it's easier to say "Oh, he'll never ask me out" Because you're afraid that might just happen, so you figure you'll be already prepared for it anyway... or because you secretly think that by saying so the exact opposite will happen.  You should think "Oh, maybe he'll ask me out!" or "I think he'll ask me out!" or even better "He'll ask me out", because let's face it.... if your mind does work that idea for you and make it happen... you'll be THRILLED!!!.... and if it doesn't happen... the time while you where feeding your head with positive thoughts. Plus... In life, everything is 50% and 50%... so if by using positive thinking you get a better chance of getting what you want.. why not use it?
How many times have you thought "This thing i wish will happen, will NOT happen"? How many times you did THAT, what you wanted happened?... Not many right?--- See what I mean ;)